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Life is an adventure!

Beliebers might just be a way to describe a mass of frenzied Justin Bieber fans but in my house this morning, I witnessed a true condition known as Bieber Fever: Panicked teenage girls controlling every computer and cell phone available to purchase pre-sale concert tickets.

It started with the mandatory membership to the Justin Bieber Fan Club.  Twenty-six dollars earned a three month membership, a JB cap, and the right to purchase pre-sale tickets.  I was having flashbacks to the Hannah Montana fiasco that got us center stage and about 20 stories up!  Nonetheless, I stood in the background, monitoring the situation and offering my credit card assistance when it was warranted.

I have been down this road before.  As a parent, it has been my pleasure to help make my kids dreams a reality, within reason.  What is reasonable?  Good question and very debatable if you ask my husband.  Camping, hiking, Warp Tours, and scouting for the best rollercoaster experience was best left to the boys in the house.  Those requests usually fell on Dad, and that wasn’t such a bad thing. Or was it?

Not that I am keeping score, but I have driven a car full of nine-year-old girls dressed in princess fashion and singing Hollaback Girl at the top of their lungs to a bowling alley for a birthday party.  I have coached U8 and U10 girls’ soccer teams and experienced firsthand the frustration of cartwheels, singing, and ballet moves on the field.  I have been to a Hannah Montana concert, survived all the High School Musical movies complete with a house full of screaming girls (Zac Effron-need I say more?), and I have been to every midnight showing of the Twilight Saga, which was 12 hours minimum each time.  Now, with JB concert tickets in hand, I will be spending a January weekend in Nashville with a group of screaming girls and I can’t wait!!

Breaking Dawn Midnight Release

I wouldn’t trade one minute of it and I would never take it for granted.  These are the days I cherish the most.  So, when my son came to us with the dream of going to Japan for a year, our response was NO WAY.  That was four years ago. I never thought I’d be saying this, especially after losing our eldest son so unexpectedly, but Benjamin will be departing for Japan on August 22nd for eleven months as a Foreign Exchange Student. The hardest thing to do in life isn’t holding on—it’s letting go.

There is a family in China that is doing the same, and it is my hope that we can give their daughter a fun, loving, and rewarding experience as a new member of our family. In August, just before the start of the school year, Shunshun (Linda) will move into Benjamin’s empty bedroom.  What was once looking like a long, quiet winter in our home, will now be filled with new experiences for her and for us.  My husband, not wanting to be outnumbered by the females, was reluctant.  But when we received our first e-mail from Shunshun, our hearts were suddenly full of love for this girl.  Here is what she wrote:

Dear Michael and Karen

First, thanks for your reception. When I received the message, it was one of the happiest moments throughout my life that suddenly light my heart. I am so amazing to realize that I will enjoy a wonderful year with you, my dear mum and dad.

Actually, I am the only children in my family. As a result, I am really looking forward to having a brother or sister.  So, I get you, Benjamin and Savannah. I am sure we will have a good time.

My parents and I appreciate you again.

Yours Linda

May 17, 2012

P.S.    Can you send me your family photo?

And here is the photo she sent.

 

It should be an interesting year and I hope to share every funny, heartwarming story with you.  Who knows, maybe there’s a Shunshun in my writing future.  Life is an adventure, as my dear friend Nancy says, so I say– go out and live it!

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Indie Author

When my daughter and I would visit our favorite bookstore (miss you, Borders!), as soon as we walked through the doors we would look at each other and smile as we breathed in the fantastic aroma.  We love the smell of bookstores!  There’s just something about ink on paper that’s bound with glue and mixed with a faint scent of coffee that excites us. We would scan the front tables neatly displaying all the new releases before making our way to the back of the store and the YA section.  That’s where we’d split and go our separate ways, meeting up occasionally in the center isle to confer on our findings.  It was a process, but we took it seriously.  After all, if we were going to drop twenty at the register, it had to be worthy.

Step one: the title had to be appealing.  My son has poked fun at a few of the new movie titles, insisting they lack originality.  I have to admit, the movie about a man on a ledge is appropriately titled, but where is the creativity?  The same could be said for the family that buys a house with a zoo attached to the property – We Bought A Zoo. Step two: the cover had to be eye-catching.  You know that feeling you get when you see a book, regardless of the genre, and you just have to pick it up to see what it’s about? Step three: the summary had to be intriguing, giving just enough information to peak interest and not so much that it was overwhelming.  Will you want to move on to step four or will it find its way back on the shelf?  Step four:  the contents.  Do you like the writer’s style? Does he/she have a distinct voice?

SOLD for 16.95 in hardcover, on a good day!

There was a time not so long ago when I had a vision.  Maybe it was more of a daydream.  Yeah, it was definitely a daydream because Borders was still open for business. Anyway, my daughter and I walked past all the hot new releases (even in a daydream, I can be realistic) and there on the shelf in the YA section was MAGESTIC DREAMS!  We took pictures with our cell phones and sent them to those we knew would be most proud and just as ecstatic.  I won’t bore you with all the details, but suffice it to say, there were enough parties, book signings, and interviews to keep me busy.

Those days are over.  I’m not saying I have given up on a dream, never.  I’ve just chosen to take the harder path.

When we purchased a Kindle for our daughter 1 ½ years ago, it was a double edged sword for me.  How could this be good for the book industry?  How could an author make any money? She was buying books for $9.99 and within a few short months, the Kindle had paid for itself.   But my daughter has an insatiable appetite for books and she was “reading us out of house and home.”  (Sounds cliché but I made that up, sort of.)  Then, something amazing happened.  She began buying books from authors she’d never heard of and at a price I couldn’t believe—sometimes as low as .99 cents. Even though the weekly trips to the bookstore are a thing of the past, the process remains the same.  Only now, the reviews take center stage.  What better way to choose an adventure than by asking your peers what they think.  It would prove to be the deciding factor in nearly 200 books on my daughters kindle.

So now, I have become one of “those” writers – an indie author.  I think I like the sound of indie– stylish, in vogue, and independent. Someone who dares to be different, who is willing to take a chance on a dream and follow the road less traveled.  For me, it has never really been about the money, though it would be nice.  It’s about finding a captive audience, one that is willing to spend twelve hours or so of their life escaping into a world I have created for them, and them loving every minute of it!  No book shelf could bring me the excitement and pure joy I felt when I first saw the pictures below.  MAGESTIC DREAMS in the hands of my readers!

Do you have a favorite indie author? If so, let them know by following their blog or

writing a review.  And if not, I would love to be yours!

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