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About Karen Householder

I was born in a small, small, town in Oklahoma and lived in eight of the fifty states before calling Knoxville, Tennessee home eleven years ago. As the mother of three teenagers, I devoted most of my time to family life with a hobby in home improvements. After running out of walls to paint and bathrooms to tile, my husband encouraged me to write a story. As an avid reader with a passion for writing and a desire to be challenged, I discovered the only thing better than reading about a fictional world is creating one.

Life is an adventure!

Beliebers might just be a way to describe a mass of frenzied Justin Bieber fans but in my house this morning, I witnessed a true condition known as Bieber Fever: Panicked teenage girls controlling every computer and cell phone available to purchase pre-sale concert tickets.

It started with the mandatory membership to the Justin Bieber Fan Club.  Twenty-six dollars earned a three month membership, a JB cap, and the right to purchase pre-sale tickets.  I was having flashbacks to the Hannah Montana fiasco that got us center stage and about 20 stories up!  Nonetheless, I stood in the background, monitoring the situation and offering my credit card assistance when it was warranted.

I have been down this road before.  As a parent, it has been my pleasure to help make my kids dreams a reality, within reason.  What is reasonable?  Good question and very debatable if you ask my husband.  Camping, hiking, Warp Tours, and scouting for the best rollercoaster experience was best left to the boys in the house.  Those requests usually fell on Dad, and that wasn’t such a bad thing. Or was it?

Not that I am keeping score, but I have driven a car full of nine-year-old girls dressed in princess fashion and singing Hollaback Girl at the top of their lungs to a bowling alley for a birthday party.  I have coached U8 and U10 girls’ soccer teams and experienced firsthand the frustration of cartwheels, singing, and ballet moves on the field.  I have been to a Hannah Montana concert, survived all the High School Musical movies complete with a house full of screaming girls (Zac Effron-need I say more?), and I have been to every midnight showing of the Twilight Saga, which was 12 hours minimum each time.  Now, with JB concert tickets in hand, I will be spending a January weekend in Nashville with a group of screaming girls and I can’t wait!!

Breaking Dawn Midnight Release

I wouldn’t trade one minute of it and I would never take it for granted.  These are the days I cherish the most.  So, when my son came to us with the dream of going to Japan for a year, our response was NO WAY.  That was four years ago. I never thought I’d be saying this, especially after losing our eldest son so unexpectedly, but Benjamin will be departing for Japan on August 22nd for eleven months as a Foreign Exchange Student. The hardest thing to do in life isn’t holding on—it’s letting go.

There is a family in China that is doing the same, and it is my hope that we can give their daughter a fun, loving, and rewarding experience as a new member of our family. In August, just before the start of the school year, Shunshun (Linda) will move into Benjamin’s empty bedroom.  What was once looking like a long, quiet winter in our home, will now be filled with new experiences for her and for us.  My husband, not wanting to be outnumbered by the females, was reluctant.  But when we received our first e-mail from Shunshun, our hearts were suddenly full of love for this girl.  Here is what she wrote:

Dear Michael and Karen

First, thanks for your reception. When I received the message, it was one of the happiest moments throughout my life that suddenly light my heart. I am so amazing to realize that I will enjoy a wonderful year with you, my dear mum and dad.

Actually, I am the only children in my family. As a result, I am really looking forward to having a brother or sister.  So, I get you, Benjamin and Savannah. I am sure we will have a good time.

My parents and I appreciate you again.

Yours Linda

May 17, 2012

P.S.    Can you send me your family photo?

And here is the photo she sent.

 

It should be an interesting year and I hope to share every funny, heartwarming story with you.  Who knows, maybe there’s a Shunshun in my writing future.  Life is an adventure, as my dear friend Nancy says, so I say– go out and live it!

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Fickle Fan

Back in the day, I was a romance novel junkie and the boring job I had at the time allowed me to read a book or two a week.  Since I had not yet found my soul mate, I was intrigued by all the fantastic ways that magical day could happen. I had set the standard high, and when I met my future husband, he was more than willing to surpass it.  He was energetic, funny, and most of all, romantic.  He didn’t own a huge plantation in the south, nor did he own a white horse, but he drove a red CJ5 Jeep and he swept me off my feet. Now, 28 years later, we have written our own love story (not literally) and next week we will celebrate 24 years of marriage.  So, before I get to the real topic of this post, Happy Anniversary Honey!

Several weeks ago, when I witnessed the cast of Good Morning America blushing at the mere mention of the book 50 Shades of Grey by E.L. James, my interest was piqued. Mothers were devouring these books (trilogy) and by all accounts, marriages were being saved and sex lives were renewed.  Being big into romance, I was a little curious.  Was it truly a good story, or was it just about sex?

I didn’t run out and buy the book, I wasn’t that curious.  So, when a fellow author and blogger wrote a post about fan fiction and 50 Shades of Grey, I was thankful I hadn’t.  First of all, I didn’t know fan fic existed or even what it was. I don’t think I could explain it better than Imelda Evans did so here is an excerpt from her blog.

“Fan Fiction, or fanfic, is what happens when people fall so much in love with a fictional world and its characters that they don’t want their interaction with it to end at the end of the book, or movie, or tv show.  When the original creators can’t give the fans enough of what they want, and talking with other fans is no longer enough, some of them turn to writing their own stories about those characters and that world.”

Interesting…  So what books have I read that could have the characters using whips, chains, and bondage???  Imelda goes on to write:

“From what I can tell, it seems that this work is mostly James’ own.  It seems to me that the connections to Twilight are, in the finished work, fairly slender.  But… it started in the Twilight fanfic community as a work of fan fiction and was appreciated and supported by that community as such.  And it was, apparently, very popular there and those people spread the word to others and it became popular more widely.”

Very interesting…  I have to admit, I read the Twilight Saga and by the time I got to Breaking Dawn and the long overdue honeymoon, I was more than ready for a little “action.”  If you have read the book, you know, it was all left to the imagination.  I felt a little jilted but I was thankful it was tastefully done because my teenage daughter had read the books before I did.  I can understand how fan fic might pick up where the mind left off, but nipple clamps might be a little over the top for me.

A relatively unknown author has hit the New York Times Bestseller list by writing an erotic love story, originally based off of a few of my favorite characters. Which brings me to a sore spot and I don’t want to sound like a whiner but I’m going to whine a little bit when I say, “That’s not fair.”  In one last excerpt:

“But the minute the fanfic writer starts to get paid for their fan fiction, it starts getting very murky indeed.  If someone writes a new story using someone else’s characters, or their world-building, I would argue that’s theft.  They are stealing the work it took to build that world and those characters and the book-selling value of those story elements.  I would argue that, as exploitable commodities, these things belong to the original author.  If the ‘inspiration’ they draw is less obvious, it’s less clearly theft, but for me as a writer, it would still be a no-go area.”

I couldn’t agree more.  (Thanks Imelda, for removing the rock I’ve been living under.)  To hear more, I suggest you visit http://imeldaevans.wordpress.com/2012/03/18/fifty-shades-of-grey-and-the-fanfic-question/ It’s a good read!

So now where do I stand? How can I pass judgment on a book I haven’t even read?  But as a writer who works hard to create a new world for my readers, how can I support such an author?  I have come to the conclusion that I will not buy the book, but if the dirty deed has already been done by a friend or family member (you can remain anonymous), I would be willing to read your copy and give a review of my findings.

In the meantime, how do you feel about fan fic?

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